In a previous blog I mentioned the things that was important for us to set in place prior to taking the step of hitting the road. That is the easy part. There are some things which can wreck a venture like this and can contribute to disappointment and failure. I also want to emphasise that my observation is coloured by my own perceptions – and some readers could disagree – you are welcome to contribute to the discussion. However, when investing into this venture, one would like to succeed. The “physical stuff” makes it possible – the caravan/motorhome/camper alongside a suitable vehicle. These are essential stuff one needs. Similar to a laptop/computer, the hardware gives you the potential to really have a great time. But without fitting the best “software” it can be totally wrecked. The software of a computer determines how good it is, irrespective of the value of the hardware. It applies in a similar way to my perception of being a grey nomad. You can have the most expensive super rig, but things can turn pear shaped. What am I talking about? For example, for myself this refers to:
- The impact of “shrinking” one’s living space. We moved from around a 320 sq meter home to around 40 sq meter (if the awning is out and can be used). True, on “good” and “average” days one can say it includes nature being “at your feet”. But on days when its raining, temperatures going over 35 degrees, or around freezing or with a dust storm blowing it can shrink to 20 sq meter (pending the size of your rig). Alternatively, when the sun sets, and you are into your 20 sq meters. While this is not frequently spoken about, I find this an important item. Specifically, if you travel with a wife/partner. Even more so if you have children travelling along. Initially it can be a “honeymoon phase” and no issues. But six months later that picture may change. These are things that needs to be spoken about prior to departing. It includes discussing/contemplating things which may have formed over many years. Am I comfortable having a smaller “living space” albeit having the opportunity to have the whole wide nature available? Do I have things to do that I feel is constructive for myself when limited in space? Do I have hobbies which can be done in a limited space? Reading? Even for partners – am I comfortable with a limited space (or sharing it) where one has to turn sideways walking from bed to toilet?
- The intricacies of one’s worldview. Most times one experience people being grey nomads as being interested in a worldview that includes nature and the universe. Which means that they are (normally) the ones taking care of nature, knowing there are next generations to come and wanting to enjoy what we have. Regrettably, it is not always the case. One’s worldview will determine where one will park your van, what resources you use and how you manage your rubbish. Having a worldview where one is conscious of the need to preserve and care for what we have can support one’s journey. It can make it interesting and being willing to spot the animal life, becoming aware of the impact of roadkill and (at least) supporting a message of care. Alternatively having the courage to dob in the transgressors and let them take responsibility for their actions.
We discussed the above frequently and also monitored it on shorter trips. Our world views are similar, and we share a love for nature. We have strong beliefs of the creation being special and must be protected for generations to come. And “downsizing” has it challenges – but can be overcome. At least, on engaging with our trip, we are aware of it and do not see them as obstacles.
